In a blissful relationship household responsibilities are divided up based on talent, not tradition.

Do you ever find yourself saying "I could clean the house better
than she does" or "I could do a better job at painting the house
than he does"?  Then perhaps it's time to reassess your family
responsibilities.  Now, that doesn't mean that if someone is super
talented, they "get" to do all the work.  And while you are at it,
make sure your sons and daughters are chipping in on the chores
(and not just the ones that are traditional to their gender -
duties will only remain stereotyped as long as we keep treating
them that way). Their future roommates and spouses will thank you.